A Nigerian wife has gone viral after sharing a shocking text message she received from her husband following a confrontation about his infidelity. The story, which has been making waves on X (formerly Twitter), was posted through an anonymous link, quickly gaining attention across social media platforms.
In her post, the wife detailed the events surrounding her troubled marriage and the aftermath of the betrayal she discovered. She revealed that after catching her husband cheating, she decided to report the issue to their pastor, hoping that counseling would help them resolve their issues and rebuild trust in their relationship. However, shortly after the counseling session, she began receiving disturbing and perplexing messages from her husband, which left her questioning the sincerity of his actions and their future together.
One such message, which she shared publicly, read: “Please, I don’t want an argument today. Make me a small pounded yam with okra if you can. I would also like to have sex if it’s not too much trouble. Should be home around 9:45 pm.” This message, which seemed to disregard the gravity of the situation, left her feeling unsettled and frustrated. In her post, she questioned: “Is this how marriage should be? I caught him cheating and reported him to our pastor. This is what I started getting after the counseling.” The emotional tone of her post resonated with many, sparking widespread conversations about marriage, trust, and accountability in relationships.
As the post gained traction online, many concerned users flocked to the comments to voice their thoughts and offer advice on the troubling situation. Some users sympathized with the wife’s emotional distress, while others attempted to provide perspectives on the complexities of relationships and marriage. Below are some of the reactions shared by viewers on the platform:
@Andyatunwa: “This simply means the woman’s attitude pushed him to cheating. After getting caught and going through counseling, man is repentant and being diplomatic to avoid arguments that might lead to more problems in the home.”
@Chef_Tee_: “God Abeg oo… This marriage thing ehhn, just do it with an intentional person..”
@claskamant51363: “I don’t like people who offend someone and try to make the person they offended seem like the villain. That is no way to solve problem. She may have 4ukd up in his sight inviting third party too quickly but make e calm down.”
@Ambrosevic1: “If he says he has sense by asking you to do that, you too show him that you some. Go and buy machine that will pound it for him in less than 20mins. Oyinbo don make things easy.”
@ChisomFX: “She was probably denying him sex, so he went outside to get it. Now that he’s decided to come back home, he’s requesting for it with the caption “if it’s not too much trouble.”
@NGBBTrippleKing: “But joke aside this isn’t too much to ask for from your wife if there’s actually peace in the home 🤔 And just as men are advised to walk away once their women cheat. Women can also choose to do the same. But be accountable with your decision. Not tomorrow you’ll come and say.”
@leesiobk: “They should sit down as a couple and iron the issue out, wife is hurt by husband’s slip-up, husband just needs to sit down and speak to wife though the deed has been done but wife seems like she still has a forgiven heart for the act.”
The post has generated a great deal of conversation, with people offering different perspectives on marriage, forgiveness, and what it means to rebuild a relationship after a betrayal. Some commenters suggest that the wife should hold firm and reconsider her options, while others urge for open communication and reconciliation.
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