A UK-based Nigerian man has opened up about his emotional struggles and mental health challenges upon returning to the United Kingdom after enjoying an exciting and vibrant Detty December in Nigeria. The man, whose TikTok handle is @odzviewspodcast, shared a heartfelt video in which he described the drastic contrast between the joyful experiences he had during the festive season in Nigeria and the grim reality he faced once he landed back in the UK. The video, posted a few days after his return, went viral, sparking a wave of reactions across social media. In the video, he expressed how his high spirits during Detty December quickly vanished as soon as he returned to the UK.
In the TikTok video, he spoke fondly of his time in Nigeria, describing moments spent with family, enjoying sunny beach days, and immersing himself in the lively, rich culture of the country. He explained how the UK, in stark contrast, felt emotionally draining and uninspiring. "This really can’t be life. You see, coming back to the UK after Detty December will really humble you. Once you step off that plane and feel that cold, it will be dawned on you. This is not a life I choose to live. Because the UK is bad and miserable," he said. He continued, "Back home, I was with family at the beach, enjoying the sun and all of that is gone, and I’m back in the UK and it really hit me like why am I here? Truly, this place is just horrible! I see why people move out of the UK to Dubai and other countries. The best way to have peace is to have a holiday; fly out of the UK every month because you can’t just stay in the UK for a whole year."
The video has resonated with many Nigerians, who shared similar feelings about the stark difference between life in Nigeria and life in the UK. Some viewers expressed how they too longed for the warmth, vibrancy, and connection of home, as opposed to the cold and monotonous lifestyle they experience in the UK. The post quickly gained attention, with users from various parts of the world chiming in to share their own stories and thoughts. Many Nigerians expressed regret over their lives in the UK, voicing their desire to return to Nigeria, despite the country's issues.
Nigerians lament miserable and boring life in the UK
lifestyle.of.alco reacted: “Yep. US🇺🇸for me. Im not even Nigerian and I felt like I left home🤣🤣🤣 Im not even obsessed with the clubbing but Being able to buy fresh sugar cane & suya on the streets won my heart.”
thou_jhoe noted: “This is why I’m packing my bags back to Nigeria, anyhow e be back home we will fight it. I rather be happy at home than depressed here.”
mavisodei added: “It’s only those who have not travelled will not understand. Africa’s only problem is leadership. Everyone who leaves abroad know that.”
Daniel Okoduwa stated: “The day Nigeria fixes its economy/security, everyone will return home, even African Americans and most Caribbeans will visit or even live there.”
Adebayo Adeboye wrote: “A friend of mine was home this December and we toured the whole lagos drinking,chilling and enjoying. Man was hissing and couldn’t sleep cus he was going the next day. Man was unhappy. That’s why even if I’m not really rich here in Nigeria,I’d rather stay here. With my family and friends and wife. Been to the Uk last year for 2 week and I knew I can’t stay here straight up. Hell nah!”
Watch the video below …
@odzviewspodcast
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♬ original sound – Odzviews
