A Nigerian nurse has issued a stern warning to women, advising them not to get pregnant unless they are financially prepared to handle the responsibilities that come with it. She shared her concerns while narrating a heartbreaking incident where a husband abandoned his wife after she gave birth to a baby born without hands. The nurse's cautionary message, which was shared in a lengthy statement, went viral after being posted in a video on her TikTok page, where she detailed the emotional story and the lessons it teaches about the realities of parenthood, especially for women who are not adequately prepared.
In the video, the nurse advised women to avoid getting pregnant simply due to external pressures such as age or societal expectations. She stressed that pregnancy should be a decision made when a woman is truly ready, both emotionally and financially, rather than acting on feelings of urgency brought on by fears of getting older. The nurse used the story of the recent hospital incident as an example to underline the importance of being prepared for the challenges that parenthood entails, especially the financial aspect.
She explained that a woman recently gave birth to a child with deformities, specifically born without hands.
In the video, she advised women not to get pregnant simply because they are getting older or feel pressured by age, but only when they are truly ready.
She referenced a recent incident at a hospital as an example.
She mentioned that a woman recently gave birth to a child with deformities, specifically born without hands.
When the husband came to check on the baby, he ran away after seeing the child’s condition.
This left the new mother in tears, regretting her decision to get pregnant.
The nurse’s statement read: “As a young woman, if you’ve decided to get pregnant, be ready to carry that pregnancy yourself. Many of you think you need to get pregnant because you’re turning 26 and feel like you’re getting old, but pregnancy isn’t for the weak.”
“Once you’re pregnant, it’s money today, tomorrow, and forever, and sometimes, these men lack compassion.”
“A lady recently gave birth to a baby with malformations, and when the husband saw the baby was born without fingers, he ran away. The woman cried and began regretting her decision to get pregnant, saying, ‘Who told me to get pregnant? I thought I was doing this for this so-called man who is now running away from his responsibility.'”
As the nurse shared her story, many concerned individuals stormed the comment section to share their thoughts.
See some reactions below:
𝓨𝓞𝓤𝓡 𝓑𝓐𝓑𝓨 🧸🌺🎀😈: “please can u tell me what i can use to prevent pregnancy am too fertile 🥺and i don’t know how to calculate my ovulation and even apps are not accurate 🥺🙏.”
saucy🌶️: “So will the baby develop it afterwards??”
ℌ𝖊̌𝔦̈𝖘̌ 𝕭𝔯̌𝖚̈𝔫̃𝖔̈: “Even na you, you no go run 😒💔💀😂.”
Azah Nancy: “How does the malformation of the bby link to a girl wanting to have a bby??? I don’t understand.”
pradelle Caïla: “please what was the cause of the malfunction.”
Ideraoluwa🌹💋💝: “You all saying if a lady doesn’t have the money she should not give birth I gave birth 4 days after my wedding and still gave birth through Cs I already spent most of my money on the wedding still my.”
Linda Adaeze: “I use pregcare max every month and it’s 40k. Pregnancy is expensive,let’s not even talk about healthy diet you have to keep eating.”
Prolific FX: “You think say life na joke?👁👁🥲🥲.”
Big_Dave220: “Them nor dey tell person💯 if you nor get funds nor born or think of marriage💯 e nor funny at all.”
ujucrochet: “Tell them oo if I talk naw anyways patronize me I do crocheting 🧶 wears.”
Nella: “This is honest truth. Lord help me I must have a sable source of income able to fend for not only me😩.”
Adeola Fashola: “So because of one incident ladies shld not get pregnant don’t know how to address issues while pregnant she suppose do child formation test if child is not forming well you can opt to terminate it.”
Mou’s Baby: “Is it that the lady didnt even attend antenatal? The government gives free folic acid and some other drugs. That is than enough to give birth to a healthy baby..”
Ivie Wendy ❤️: “Let’s not talk about the ones that will give birth and start using their own to disturb another person 😭.”
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