A US-based Nigerian woman, Princess Ada, has shared an insightful piece of advice for women, urging them not to allow anyone to bully [/b]them into marrying [/b]a man who is poor. The advice was posted on her Facebook page, where she openly expressed her thoughts on the matter. According to her, women should be cautious in choosing their life partners, emphasizing the importance of ambition over current wealth status when it comes to selecting a husband.
In the post, Princess Ada elaborated on the type of man women should consider for marriage. She urged women to go for men who may not be financially well-off at the time of marriage, but who have the drive and ambition to become wealthy in the future. She stressed that ambition is a crucial factor, and it is important to look for men who are not just dreamers, but those who are putting in the work to achieve their goals. She warned against men who constantly talk about their future plans but fail to take any real steps toward making them a reality, noting that such individuals could be potentially fraudulent or unreliable in the long run.
, anonymous hands of a wedding couple.[/figure]Princess Ada then shared further thoughts, specifically addressing women who are in their 30s, 40s, or older. She advised these women to ensure that they see clear signs of success and wealth in their potential husbands, and to confirm that the man has the right mindset to support and provide for his wife financially. She stressed the importance of marrying someone who is not only capable of taking care of the financial aspects of marriage but also has the desire to create a stable and prosperous future for both partners.
“Life is hard, marriage is hard, and money is needed to enjoy this life,” she wrote, acknowledging the challenges that come with both life and marriage. While she encouraged women to be financially independent and make their own money, she emphasized the importance of marrying a man who is also capable of contributing financially and working hard to ensure the success and happiness of the marriage. She concluded her post with a call for women to be discerning in their choices, urging them to make it a priority to marry a man who will help them build a prosperous future together.
Read her posts below…
“I heard they are dragging me for this post! My ladies, this 2025 don’t let anyone b00ley you into marrying p00r man o, they will not suffer poverty with you,” she wrote.
“If you are very young and looking to marry a man in his 20s, even if he is not r!ch yet, make sure he is ambitious and desires to be r!ch someday. Not dreamer o!!! Ambitious as in you can see him working hard towards it not just talking cos those ones that are always talking about making it without doing the work, they may be fr@dusters or future fraudsters.”
“If you are my age or looking to marry men in their 30s and 40s and up, my dear make sure you see signs of success & wealth and confirm that he has the mindset to provide for you and take care of you financially as his wife before you marry any man.
“Life is hard, Marriage is hard and money is needed to enjoy this life. Yes of course make your own money, but make it your goal to marry a man who will make money for you too. Let she who has ears hear.”