A Twitter user recently shared a message she received from a married man, sparking a discussion on boundaries and privacy. The user explained that she typically refrains from posting direct messages she receives, out of respect for others' boundaries. However, she decided to share this particular message because it coincidentally aligns with a current trend and because she herself has experienced similar incidents.
In her tweet, the user pointed out that the man's bio clearly states "Jesus and Married," yet he still messaged her to "chill out." She intentionally posted this to address the issue and to avoid accusations of seeking attention by frequently sharing such messages.
The user emphasized that she values boundaries and privacy, and has received numerous ridiculous direct messages in the past. However, the reason she chose to share this specific message is because it aligns with the trending topic of the day. She questioned how someone could boldly proclaim their marital status in their bio and then proceed to request that they "chill out."
Accompanying the tweet, she included screenshots of the message exchange as evidence. The conversation stirred a conversation on Twitter, where Nigerian singer and politician Banky W is currently trending due to allegations of infidelity towards his wife, Adesua Etomi. The controversy was fueled by a recent post from the controversial blogger Gistlover, which implicated a celebrity in a cheating scandal, leading many to connect it to Banky W.
Her tweet reads;
“See Bio now…. Jesus and Married. I intentionally put this out here today, coincidentally such is trending today. If I post frequently according to the type of DMs I get on this app, it might look like I’m chasing clout.”
She continued;
“I don’t like posting DMs cause I respect boundaries and privacy. I’ve gotten so many ridiculous DMs but the reason why I put this out here is because the matter is trending today. How will you boldly put married on bio and still be requesting we “chill out”?”
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