A Nigerian man has sparked a wave of mixed reactions on social media after sharing a heartwarming video of the emotional moment he surprised his wife with a newly built house. The touching gesture has gained significant attention, with many commending his efforts and others questioning his approach and choice of words during the reveal.
The young man, known on TikTok as @availableufuoma, shared the video showcasing the culmination of what he described as a labor of love and secrecy. For months, he had been secretly constructing the house without his wife’s knowledge, planning to unveil it as a grand surprise. The reveal, however, has stirred a debate online, with some focusing on the phrasing he used when presenting the house.
In the now-viral video, the man blindfolded his wife and led her to the location of the house. When they arrived, he removed the blindfold, revealing the building and declaring it to be “his house.” His wife, overwhelmed with emotion, screamed and expressed disbelief at the surprise, visibly moved by the gesture. Despite her joyful reaction, some viewers criticized the man for referring to the house as “his,” suggesting that it would have been more inclusive to say “our house.”
Many supporters of the man have defended his intentions, arguing that the use of “my” was likely an unintentional slip, given the excitement of the moment. They praised his thoughtfulness and hard work in building the house, emphasizing the happiness the wife displayed in the video.
Critics, however, raised concerns about transparency in the marriage. They questioned the decision to undertake such a significant project without involving his wife, suggesting that the move might reflect a lack of openness in the relationship. The debate has ignited discussions about communication and inclusivity in marriage.
Reactions trailing the man’s newly built house
Social media users expressed diverse opinions in the comments section, with some defending the man and others questioning his approach. Here are some of the reactions:
GYIMAH MODRIC said: “Most of you are angry at his statement meanwhile the lady herself is happy. You that they don’t know, you’re angry.”
princess sophia said: “Which one be na my house? It should be our house.”
Area scatter😏🤝 said: “Wallahi if na me be the wife, I no go laugh. Me too go undertake a major project in secret.”
Udu Ako mmiri said: “Na my house be this or na our house be this? Which kind talk be that!!!”
nanini said: “I don’t like that you built a house without your wife knowing. There seems to be no transparency in the marriage.”
Ntare256 said: “She will be equally surprised after selling it without her knowledge. In marriage, all dreams and aspirations should be shared at the very beginning.”
The video has sparked conversations about the dynamics of marital relationships and the importance of shared decision-making. While some focus on the thoughtful gesture and the wife’s joyful reaction, others highlight the need for improved communication between partners.
Watch the video below …
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♬ original sound – AvailableUfuoma
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@availableufuoma♬ original sound – AvailableUfuoma
