A young man identified as @Alan_yournextbf has claimed that most Nigerian ladies do not value friendship with the opposite sex unless the guy in question is a spender.
According to him, he used to have a close female friend that he did almost everything for. He always checked up on her, took her out to parties, got drugs for her when she fell sick, and even gave her words of wisdom.
However, on a particular day she visited, he didn’t do any of the things he usually did for her, causing the friendship to end abruptly.
He tweeted:
“I tried to keep a female friend without strings attached earlier this year. Sometimes I would drop her off at the gym, pick her up when I’m free, I’d buy her lunch on our way home and she would seldom come over to watch movies and chill, each time she comes over I’d order pizza, I’d order ice cream, I’d put on the generator, I’d take her home when she’s ready.
“She would call for advice, complain about body pains, malaria, headaches and I’ll be so concerned of my bestie, I’d offer to get her drugs, I’d even get food for her to take along with the drugs.
“I’d invite her out and take her to parties and events and we’ll go together as friends, go on date nights and just tour different lounges in our environment.
“One time she came to my house and I didn’t put on the generator cos of fuel scarcity and we should be comfortable enough to chill without light na, I didn’t order pizza or food or drink, there was food stuffs, we should be comfortable enough to eat home made food na.
“There was this awkward silence in the room, I tried to do random things and have random conversations but it wasn’t working, 30 minutes to 1hr in, aunty said she wants to go home, I couldn’t drop her off so she had to take a bike.
“I promise you, she didn’t text me afterwards and the friendship died a natural death. My point here is, if you’re not spending money or trying to give orgasm to the female gender then your friendship to them is useless.
“What are we talking about? Why am I texting you? Why are you my friend? Alaye open leg!The only genuine female friends you’ll ever have are your secondary school classmates or childhood female friends.
“Work female friends are just colleagues, church female friends are just church members and gym female friends are just gym buddies, these people are not really your friends, they are just people you know.”
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