[p]A Facebook user named Austin Deko, who is a Nigerian man based in the UK, recently shared his opinion on what he believes is a woman's duty as a wife. According to Deko, a woman has failed as a wife if she is unable to "fatten up" her husband after four to five years of marriage.
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[p]One user, going by the name "thefoodnetworknig2," replied by saying, "If he no fit gain weight from him mama house wey born am, who I be? Just open mouth waaa like person thunder." Another user, "deji_ix," sarcastically commented, "So I guess it's also safe to say if your wife doesn't gain bum bum after 5 yrs of marriage. You have..". Yet another user, "omocatechist," pointed out that some men enjoy working out and asked, "Wetin she wan feed me for the marriage wey I never chop before I marry?"
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[p]It's important to note that there is no one-size-fits-all definition of what it means to be a good spouse, and opinions like Deko's are not necessarily reflective of broader cultural or societal expectations. Ultimately, each individual relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another.
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