A man identified as Ugochukwu has stirred discussions on social media with his recent post on X, formerly known as Twitter. In his post, he made a bold claim that Nigerian dads typically do not cook, sparking debates and diverse opinions among Netizens.
Ugochukwu posed a thought-provoking question to his followers, asking, “Have you ever eaten any food cooked by your father?” This statement has reignited conversations around traditional gender roles in Nigerian households, particularly the long-standing notion that fathers rarely engage in kitchen-related activities.
He stated, “Nigerian dads don’t cook. Have you ever eaten any food cooked by your father?”
This belief, which many Nigerians have heard or experienced, has been a common notion passed down through generations. While some people believe that Nigerian fathers are not accustomed to cooking, others have shared anecdotes about their fathers being excellent cooks at one time, though they might have lost their culinary skills due to not cooking frequently after marriage.
Ugochukwu’s post has drawn widespread reactions on social media, with some individuals sharing personal stories and fond memories of meals prepared by their fathers. Here are a few notable responses to his question:
@A_Abby_Abi remarked, “My Dad was old school. He never cooked for the family. He believed the kitchen is women’s office. But he cooked for himself a couple of times, and we got to taste his cooking.”
@QueenUjunwa1 shared a different perspective, writing, “He cooks so perfect! He is even the one that taught me how to cook Egwusi soup.”
@iamannugold shared a touching story, stating, “When my dad knew I was visiting him, he called and asked me what I wanted to eat when I arrived. I told him anything. He made stew with plenty of crayfish. I couldn’t eat it; it tasted like stew with much sugar. It was the thought that counts, though. Continue to rest in peace, daddy.”
While some responses supported Ugochukwu’s claim, others highlighted instances where Nigerian dads proved to be great cooks, challenging the stereotype. These conversations continue to reflect the evolving dynamics in Nigerian families, where traditional roles are increasingly being redefined.
