A Nigerian man, identified as Femi, has sparked outrage online after a viral video showed him publicly proposing to another woman, despite allegations that he abandoned his wife and two children.
The incident, which occurred at a restaurant in Lekki, was shared widely on social media, with many questioning Femi’s actions and past behavior.
A post shared on the social media platform X (formerly Twitter) by user @DijahMoon alleged that Femi not only deserted his family but was also physically abusive toward his wife. The user provided damning evidence, including voice notes and pictures, to substantiate her claims.
In a detailed statement, @DijahMoon wrote:
“Lol, is this not Gadus? A woman beater and narcissist. A man who has a wife and two kids but abandoned them for over a year. He beats the wife like gym bros beat punch bags—congrats to them, though. The evidence is everywhere, just in case.”
“Femi has two kids with his wife—I’d say ex-wife, but they’re not legally divorced. The abuse started after the second child was born. He would lock them outside and only open the kitchen when he was around.”
“Gadus is not only a woman beater but also a deadbeat father. Listen to the voice notes attached. The evidence is plenty. ‘I’ve forgotten them.’ Omo meji.”
“I ask again, is this not Femi? The same Femi who proposed to another woman today? The same Femi who told his children’s mother, ‘What can you do? Nobody in your family is successful, so no one can fight for you.’ Come take care of your kids, Gadus the Anthony Joshua.”
“This is when Femi married Tolu and when one of the kids was christened. Femi, the lover boy, go and take responsibility for your kids. To the new woman, I hope you don’t end up like Tolu. You might know what he did to her—or maybe you’ve been wrapped in a web of lies.”
“For those pushing for a DNA test, she’s not holding him back, but Gadus certainly deflowered her.”
In addition to the allegations of abandonment and abuse, @DijahMoon also highlighted Femi’s dismissive attitude toward his responsibilities, stating that he had ignored his children and their mother while starting a new chapter with another woman.
The video of Femi’s proposal has drawn mixed reactions on social media. While some congratulated the couple, others expressed anger and disappointment over the alleged actions of Femi, especially toward his wife and children.
WATCH VIDEO:
The moment she realized she was being proposed to……🥹❤️ pic.twitter.com/1FjDMXSFo7
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) January 24, 2025
As the conversation continues online, many have called for Femi to take responsibility for his actions and to address the allegations leveled against him. The situation remains a topic of heated debate, with some users expressing solidarity with his estranged wife and children.
