An African American lady has sparked a heated debate after publicly praising her boyfriend for staying with her despite multiple challenges throughout their tumultuous relationship.
A Facebook post by Minnie F. Baby has generated considerable attention and controversy after she expressed profound appreciation for her partner’s unwavering love and commitment, despite the difficulties she had caused. She openly acknowledged her past mistakes, including cheating, having a child outside the relationship, and even marrying someone else while still in the relationship with him.
In her post, Minnie shared the details of the struggles they had faced together, while expressing deep gratitude towards her partner for his loyalty and endurance. Her post read: “When I cheated, YOU STAYED! When I had a baby on you, you took care of me! When I left you when you was at your lowest, YOU took me back when you came up! When I got married and told you that we could still date in private, YOU AGREED!
“Baby, the day you told me you rather have some of me than to not have me at all, you made me realize what unconditional love is. You’ve loved me genuinely and through all I’ve put you through, you still choose me. You’re the true definition of a king! I love the way you love me!!!!!!!!!”
Backlash and defense
The post quickly went viral, and many people have since criticized Minnie for openly acknowledging behaviors that some considered disrespectful and emotionally exploitative. Critics expressed their disapproval, labeling her boyfriend as a “doormat” for tolerating such actions and questioning the level of respect she had for him. Others pointed out that her lack of accountability for her actions was concerning and expressed concern about the message it sent to others.
However, Minnie didn’t remain silent in the face of this backlash. In a follow-up video, she addressed the criticism, defending her partner and strongly condemning those who had harshly criticized him. She expressed frustration over the negative responses, stating: “I am not gonna tolerate no disrespect on this internet. You lots don’t know what real love is. He’s not a simp, he’s my king.”
Watch the video below …
Just when you thought you have seen it all.😭😭 pic.twitter.com/OmuCPHMxVg
— Chudé (@chude__) December 16, 2024
