Lady shocks by expressing desire to marry someone similar to her current boyfriend, but not him

A young South African lady has stirred conversation by openly sharing her desire to marry a man who treats her in a manner similar to her current boyfriend. The revelation, made by social media user @Nanazille on the X platform, sheds light on her specific preferences in a life partner.

According to @Nanazille, her current boyfriend embodies the qualities of a perfect man. However, she expresses the intention to wed someone with similar characteristics, explicitly stating that she doesn't want to marry her current boyfriend. In her own words, "I want to marry someone like my current boyfriend but not my current boyfriend. Everything that man is just transferred to another man. I hope that makes sense to you, God!!"

"Kuthiwa I must settle😭😭I have one life. I’d rather be single than settle. To settle ya’ll questions, he isn’t South African, I’d just love to settle down with a South African for an easier or convenient life. If it makes sense. He is not ugly, broke, or married like some have tried to guess lol. Ya’ll don’t know my relationship nor the dynamics. You find offense in me stating my preference, when the person I am dating doesn’t, the problem is you. Otherwise, we make each other happy, go puke your guts out in borrowed anger and leave me😂🤣🤣."

Her statement sparked mixed feelings among social media users, prompting questions and varied reactions. Some examples include:

Reactions trailing South African lady who hopes to marry a man like her current boyfriend

Talk2vee questioned: "So why are you with him? Why not stay single, wait for who fits this description? If he tells you 'the man that will marry you is lucky,' you’ll cry and call him a time waster SMH 🤦🏽‍♀️."

Rho__Nald stated: "I pray he sees this. God please save this nigga🙏."

Omezerevivian commented: "Seems what you’re trying to insinuate here is that you probably want to marry someone that has your current boyfriend's physical looks and not his character or maybe his character and not his physical looks."

Andress22_00 expressed confusion: "This English is not Englishing; can you explain better 😭 Marry someone like my current boyfriend? But not my current boyfriend??"