A Nigerian woman has shared her unpleasant first date experience with a man who displayed disrespectful and inconsiderate behavior throughout their time together.
In her post on X, the user @symplydivine recounts how the man, whom she went on a date with, argued over the cost of a Bolt ride and offered to share a single cup of ice cream with her, a gesture she found inconsiderate and stingy.
As the date progressed, things only worsened. The man proposed that they continue their evening at his place to “watch Netflix and chill,” an indirect suggestion that they should become intimate. The lady was shocked by the audacity and disrespect he showed during the entire encounter.
My horrible date experience
“I went on a terrible date yesterday. He didn’t just argue about the Bolt prices with me, he made us share a single cup of ice-cream 😭. After the date, he proposed that we go over to his place to watch Netflix. I refused, and he said, ‘What’s the worst that could happen, it’s just sex & we’re adults’.”
“I almost threw up, the audacity that men have!! 😭😭. He still had the audacity to ask for another date today, I blocked him o 😭✋🏽. I initially thought he got the ice-cream for me because the girl at the counter asked him if he’s placing an order for another cup, I heard him saying ‘No, he’s eaten too much sugary stuff’.”
“We got back to our table, and I began eating, but then I saw him grab another spoon 😭😭. I honestly don’t blame girls that ask for money for outfits and all because I looked too good on that date and see what happened 😭. He even called me ‘big madam’, omo 😞.”
“I left it; they were already closing up, so I couldn’t get another cup. My only mistake was not walking away till he proposed ‘going over to his place to complete the date’. He argued the Bolt prices when I got home. He was supposed to refund me for the rides. I think I was giving him the benefit of the doubt because I couldn’t believe my eyes 😭.”
