A Nigerian lady has captured widespread attention on social media after recounting a series of heartbreaking experiences from her relationship with her ex-boyfriend, Yinka, who hails from Abeokuta. She detailed a total of 19 devastating incidents that left her feeling undervalued and emotionally shattered throughout their time together.
In a candid post shared on her social media page via the platform X, formerly known as Twitter, she opened up about the various red flags she encountered in her relationship with Yinka, revealing intimate details of how his actions affected her well-being.
The lady expressed how Yinka's actions repeatedly highlighted the emotional turmoil she faced, despite her relentless efforts to be a supportive partner. She reflected on the negative impact of his behavior, stating:
“I’m healed now. Send me another YINKA from Abeokuta who was born, raised, and now lives in Lagos.”
She further detailed her experiences, including the following points:
– “The kind who takes hours to reply to my texts with just ‘how far,’ yet chats with his ex and other women non-stop.”
– “The one whose phone isn’t on DND but ignores my calls without checking why I’m reaching out.”
– “The one who can talk for two hours straight only when he wants me to come over, then goes silent until he needs me again.”
– “The one who begs his ex to talk to him, even when she’s cursing and rejecting him.”
– “The one who excuses his chats with his married ex by calling it ‘Okafor’s Law,’ even though she has kids.”
– “The one who spends time with random women, including his employees.”
– “The one who lets me rest my head on his chest but texts his ex saying he’s lonely.”
– “The one whose family and friends know me, but he insists we’re just friends even after we started dating.”
– “The one who loves showing me off but has never bought me a single outfit.”
– “The one who hasn’t given me a simple gift in five years.”
– “The one who can cover his friends’ bills but has only ever given me a few thousand.”
– “The one who complains about any gift I buy him.”
– “The one who gets upset because I have male friends.”
– “The one glued to his phone, watching Instagram reels and TikTok lives, and even sending gifts to streamers, but forgets to say hi until he wants intimacy.”
– “The one who has never said ‘I love you’ and, when I say it, just smiles and tells me to ‘calm down.’”
– “The one who was attentive as a friend but turned cold once we started dating.”
– “The one who asked me to ‘try harder’ to make him love me.”
– “The one who, when I finally sent a breakup message, replied with just ‘lol.’”
– “The one who constantly reminded me we come from different worlds, hoping I’d tire and leave on my own.”
“I’ll stop here for now. But if life has another Yinka in store, let’s see.”
Her heartfelt and relatable post quickly went viral, striking a chord with many who resonated with her painful journey and the difficult experiences she endured during her relationship with Yinka.
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