A Nigerian lady has sparked a heated debate on social media after she advised unmarried women aged 37 and above to consider having children, even if they are not married. Her opinion, which challenges traditional views on family and relationships, has gained attention and divided opinions among viewers.
In a video posted on TikTok, Mrs. Sugar, the lady behind the advice, argued that it is better for women in their late 30s and early 40s to have a child than to continue waiting indefinitely for marriage. She believes that women should not let societal pressures about marriage prevent them from experiencing motherhood and personal fulfillment.
According to Mrs. Sugar, having a baby out of wedlock [/b]can be a practical and empowering decision for women approaching their 40s, as it allows them to experience the joy of motherhood while also having the possibility of building a future relationship later on. She emphasized that there is no shame in having a child without being married.
“See my sister, I know you are waiting on the Lord to give you the right partner. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but as marriage never come, my sister, born pikin [have a child],” she advised in the video. She further encouraged women to explore legal and ethical methods of conception, such as artificial insemination or other medical options, if they are not comfortable conceiving with a random partner. Mrs. Sugar also reassured women that having a child before marriage would not stop them from finding love or a fulfilling relationship in the future. Having children could still bring happiness and satisfaction, regardless of marital status.
Her remarks have sparked a wide range of reactions on social media. Many people have expressed support for her message, emphasizing that personal happiness and fulfillment should take precedence over traditional societal expectations. Others, however, have voiced concerns about the implications of having children without marriage, questioning whether such a decision could affect a child's future or the woman’s emotional well-being. The debate continues to generate mixed opinions, with some arguing that the decision to have children should be made based on personal values, circumstances, and readiness.
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