[p]Chidera Eggerue is a British Nigerian writer, public speaker, and fashion blogger known for her bold views on relationships, self-worth, and female empowerment. She has once again sparked widespread debate with her latest assertion that encouraging women to get married is equivalent to encouraging them towards their death.
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[p]Chidera Eggerue, who is widely recognized for her feminist ideology, strongly believes that men are unreliable and cannot be trusted when it comes to relationships. She has described men as the “apex predators” of women, emphasizing that women face significant dangers when they enter into marriage. According to her, the institution of marriage has historically placed women in vulnerable positions, where they often suffer abuse, neglect, and even fatal violence at the hands of their spouses.
[/p][p]She further elaborated on her perspective, stating that in many societies, the dynamics of marriage still favor men disproportionately, often leaving women financially and emotionally disadvantaged. She stressed that men can easily bring harm to their wives, either physically, emotionally, or financially, making the entire concept of marriage risky for women. Chidera expressed her concern by stating, “Encouraging women to get married is like encouraging women to step one inch closer to our death.”
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[p]Chidera emphasized that if a woman is to be encouraged to get married, it should be done with her best interests in mind. She warned against the societal pressure that forces women into marriage without considering their safety, financial stability, or emotional well-being.
[/p][p]She highlighted the importance of financial independence and security for women in marriages, stating, “If I were to get married to a man, I will only be getting married to someone who’s putting land, properties, and assets in my name.” According to her, women should not enter marriage without clear financial benefits and ownership of valuable assets that can protect them in case the relationship turns sour.
[/p][p]Her comments have ignited mixed reactions online, with some people supporting her stance and others criticizing her for painting all men with the same brush. While many women praised her for highlighting the dangers of marriage in patriarchal societies, others argued that her views were too extreme and did not reflect the experiences of all married women.
[/p][p]Chidera, who has built a reputation for advocating for women’s rights and body positivity, remains firm in her beliefs. She continues to use her platform to challenge societal norms and encourage women to prioritize their well-being over traditional expectations.
[/p][p]Watch her speak in the video below….
[/p][p]“When we are encouraging women to get married, we are encouraging women to step one inch closer to our death…”
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[p]— Chidera Eggerue pic.twitter.com/Nv6lwcefVZ
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[p]— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) February 16, 2025
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