A relationship coach, Oladele Oluwaseun, has urged men to look beyond a woman’s cooking skills when considering a life partner. She emphasized that men should not lose sight of women who can be their comforter, prayer partner, or destiny helper simply because they cannot cook.
In a detailed post shared on her social media page, Oluwaseun highlighted that some men have unknowingly passed up the opportunity to build a life with amazing women due to their lack of culinary skills. According to her, such men often fail to see the bigger picture and focus solely on superficial expectations.
She pointed out that many men prioritize finding women who can cook, give birth, and manage the home but overlook other vital qualities, such as being business-minded or serving as a supportive partner. Oluwaseun shared her thoughts, stating:
“Some men have missed the great woman God has ordained for them because they are looking for someone to cook and birth their children! They missed the great friend, cheerleader, soulmate, prayer partner, business partner, gist partner, comforter, encourager, life support she would have been if they had valued her beyond her culinary skills and v∆gina,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Thursday.
“There is more to a woman than cooking and having sex, bro! She is here to help you, support you, and help you become great! Don’t miss the Gold because you enjoy wearing Gold Circle C0nd0m! Value the woman in your life beyond her ability to cook!”
Oluwaseun also downplayed the importance of cooking, describing it as simply the ability to mix the right ingredients at the right time. She advised men to consider hiring a chef if they desire professional dishes and reminded them that men can also cook.
She clarified her stance, saying, “I’m not justifying the inability to cook. Don’t misunderstand me. Neither am I saying women should not cook for their family. Ladies who can’t cook should endeavour to attend catering school or simply watch some videos online or learn from others. You can’t know how to cook everything on earth before getting married, but you can learn the basics.”
She further explained that some women do not know how to cook due to their upbringing. “Some ladies don’t know how to cook not because they are lazy but because they came from a poor background where they could not afford good meals, let alone cooking them,” she added.
Sharing her personal experience, Oluwaseun noted, “My mum didn’t cook three meals daily while growing up. I could remember us buying food to eat. She rarely cooked because she could not afford it.”
She also disclosed that her fiancé taught her how to prepare certain meals, and she continues to learn from others. “My children tell me I am the best cook in the world. Hubby says my dishes taste like those from restaurants. I keep learning daily,” she said.
Oluwaseun urged men not to miss out on great wives by adhering strictly to traditional expectations. Instead, she encouraged them to follow God’s word, which brings peace of mind and happiness in marriage.
She concluded by emphasizing the divine purpose of women in a man’s life. “The primary purpose of a woman coming into your life is to help you fulfil your destiny! You will not miss your soulmate in Jesus’ name!”
