A bride’s father has sparked widespread discussion with his thought-provoking advice to his groom at their wedding ceremony. His remarks, which challenge traditional gender roles, have gone viral on social media.
In a video making rounds on X (formerly Twitter), the father took the opportunity to remind the groom that it is not a wife’s duty to cook for her husband. He stressed that while a wife may choose to cook out of love and kindness, it should never be considered an obligation or expectation placed upon her.
He further elaborated that societal norms should not dictate a woman’s role in the home, particularly when it comes to household chores. He urged the groom to avoid adopting an entitled mindset where he expects food to be served as a right.
Instead, he encouraged the groom to express gratitude and appreciation for his wife’s efforts, emphasizing that whatever she does is out of goodwill and a reflection of her devotion, not because she is duty-bound to do so.
His statement reads:
“Don’t believe in what our culture promotes—that as the husband and head of the family, you should come home, frown, and demand, ‘Where’s my food?’”
“Who told you she has to cook for you? Nowhere, nobody. She does it out of her own volition because she wants to make you happy and seek Al-Jannah.”
His words have since sparked mixed reactions among social media users, with many debating the responsibilities of spouses in marriage.
See some reactions below:
@praisejohnn: “In summary, I no stress another man pikin. So no stress my pikin.”
@JacobAmeh6: “In summary, he’s saying it’s not the duty of a wife to cook for her husband, that a wife who cooks for her husband is doing it out of love. Meaning anytime she doesn’t feel like cooking due to one thing or the other, even if it takes a whole month, you shouldn’t see it as a problem.”
@KingSuleiman27: “He is absolutely right. That’s how it’s supposed to be. He is a great father.”
@JacobAmeh6: “I don’t know why people love to dish out what they cannot take.”
@KingsleyIyamu6: “Obviously, the girl’s family has money. Nah why see finish enter.”
@charliebeato: “What could be going on in the guy’s head?”
@Cleverlydey4u: “No doubt when the bride’s family pays for a wedding, you’ll always know.”
@Talk2MaRa: “Most times, the problem with this generation is primarily from their parents and the people they look up to.”
WATCH VIDEO:
“Your wife Must not Cook for you” – Father of Bride tells Groom at wedding pic.twitter.com/YFBebqeAzm
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) February 26, 2025