One Nigerian woman has been offered a fully funded scholarship to pursue her master's degree in Canada, but her boyfriend has asked her to decline the opportunity. The woman shared her dilemma with a social media adviser who posted about it on Twitter seeking advice. According to the adviser's tweet, the woman's boyfriend warned her against traveling overseas as it could cause their relationship to terminate. The adviser advised the woman to pursue her dreams and not let her boyfriend hold her back. The tweet has since gone viral, sparking a debate on social media about choosing between love and career opportunities.
The woman, whose identity is undisclosed, is now faced with a tough decision - to leave for Canada and pursue her studies or stay in Nigeria with her boyfriend. The adviser, who goes by the handle @SummerOkibe on Twitter, called the boyfriend's request a "big red flag" and said that "a man that loves you would not stop you from achieving your goals."
Many people have taken to social media to share their opinions on the matter, with some suggesting that the woman should follow her dreams, while others believe that she should prioritize her relationship. The debate has also extended to married couples, with some asking whether they would be willing to sacrifice their dreams for the sake of their spouse. The incident has once again highlighted the challenges that women face in pursuing their education and careers in patriarchal societies where they are expected to prioritize family and relationships over personal growth.
You won't believe what this girl's boyfriend asked her to do! Just when she thought life was going perfectly β a scholarship abroad, opportunities of a lifetime β love knocked on her door.
Now, imagine having your dreams within reach, only to have someone you love ask you toβ¦
β ππ’ππππ (@SummerOkibe) March 22, 2023