Ghanaian online counselor shares candid advice to men and women in their 20s, asking them to leave marriage and focus on self-development.
She shared the video to her Tiktok account, @untoldchronicleswithgene, where she has a large following.
According to her, as people in their 20s, they should not be worried about marriage and children as they have all of their 30s for that.
She believes that is the age to make money, get to know themselves, date people and gather life experiences.
The counselor believes that once you gather those experiences and have adequately lived your life, it becomes easier to navigate your 30s.
Here are some reactions to her video
@onlygh3 commended: “This is the best advice I have ever come across thank madam”
@acheampongmaa20 noted: “you are matured..let me follow you? my mom always tells her biggest mistake was that she married early(24 years)”
@Star-G stated: “20s or 30s person go still marry the wrong person….in my opinion age is not maturity. marry when you are ready physically,mentally, financially…”
@Evaluv7 added: “i wanted to marry at 24 when i just graduated from uni…but my elder bro refused..so i decided to learn a tech skill..omo i dont regret it im 28 now.”
@THE COUNSELOR wrote: “y’all saying this avoid that. if you’re in a good relationship and you two are intentional about yourself. Build together, nothing dey street.”
Watch the video here
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