Peace Ijeoma Albert, a Nigerian woman, candidly shares how her severe anger issues became a significant factor in the failure of all her past relationships, causing her ex-boyfriends not to marry her.
Now happily married, she reveals that her current husband is the only one who was willing to endure and understand her anger issues, even amid numerous attempts to leave him.
Peace admires her husband's sacrifice, highlighting that they both had anger issues, but he chose to control his own for the sake of having her in his life and assisting her in managing hers.
Sharing her story on Facebook, she encourages people to work on their relationships instead of ending them due to challenging attitudes. Peace emphasizes the importance of seeing beyond external beauty and recognizing the vision that enables partners to build capacity and overcome flaws together.
Here's an excerpt from her post:
"Sometimes I wonder why my exes didn't marry me. But I stopped thinking when I realized how much hubby has tolerated me. Let me share a story with you and please learn. Before I got married, I had this anger issue, a very terrible one. I hardly let go... Today I can't even remember getting angry for a long period of time. Sometimes, I will be angry oh, next minute person don collect one hand in bed. Maybe afterward, I will then remember that I was angry prior to that time. Learn to help fix your partner, especially if she wants to be helped. Thank you #angerissues."