Renowned media personality, Bolanle Olukanni, has once again taken to Twitter to emphasize the significance of abstinence and its impact on romantic relationships. Bolanle is known for her unwavering support of abstinence and the perspective it brings to the realm of love and intimacy.
Utilizing her platform on Twitter, Bolanle shared her thoughts on the role of sex in relationships, sparking a conversation on a topic that often carries a certain level of societal taboo.
In her candid and open-minded Twitter posts, Bolanle emphasized that engaging in sexual activity can complicate relationships. She argued that it can cloud judgment and make it difficult to see things clearly. Her view challenged the prevailing notion that sex is just a casual act, asserting that the true purpose of the experience is to strengthen the emotional bond between two deeply in love individuals.
Bolanle firmly rejected the idea that sex is merely physical and transient, asserting that there exists a profound connection that should not be underestimated or disregarded.
Drawing from her own experiences with abstinence, Bolanle explained that it helps her make relationship decisions with clarity and reason. She wrote, "Sex complicates everything. You can’t see clearly and you can’t make decisions properly. It was created to bond you to a person. Convince yourself allll you want that it is just sex. It’s not and will never be.
"I make relationship decisions quickly because my mind is clear. I can see the person for who they are early on in the relationship. Sex isn’t distracting us. It’s about conversation, how do they treat me, what’s their character. These are the things that last!
"I love myself too much to shortchange myself. And no one will ever convince me otherwise. With the wisdom of GotaGrid guidance of the Holy Spirit, I know this is the right way to do this.
"When I tell people that abstinence is the way to go when you are getting to know someone, they think I’m crazy. It’s not me that will be deceived because of my hormones. Sweetie, you ain’t in love; you are just horny."
Bolanle's candid and assertive stance on the matter has ignited a thoughtful discussion on the role of abstinence in modern relationships, challenging conventional norms and shedding light on the importance of emotional connection and clarity when it comes to matters of the heart.
Bolanle's outspoken perspective continues to contribute to the ongoing conversation about love, intimacy, and the significance of clear-headed decision-making in the realm of relationships.