Famous media personality, Toke Makinwa, has candidly shared her experiences from her twenties, revealing how she dedicated that decade of her life to a single relationship. Her heartfelt reflections have sparked conversations on self-discovery and the importance of personal growth.
Makinwa opened up during a guest appearance on the podcast, *Cocktails and Takeaways*. In her discussion, she delved into her youthful experiences and expressed dissatisfaction with the way she navigated that phase of her life. She highlighted the lessons she learned and the ways in which her past has contributed to her present perspective.
Reflecting on her twenties, Makinwa acknowledged that her experiences, though challenging, have played a significant role in shaping her into the person she is today. She noted that while she didn’t enjoy that period of her life, she appreciates the growth it facilitated.
She shared her thoughts, saying:
“I don’t think I liked my twenties. I don’t think I knew what I was doing because I was in love with one man in my 20s. I spent my entire 20s following one man.”
Makinwa went on to express gratitude for where she is today, recognizing that the lessons learned from her past have contributed to her current outlook. However, she emphasized the importance of self-discovery for young people, advocating against rushing into life-altering commitments at an early age.
She continued: “If I could turn back the hand of time, I’m grateful that I’m where I am today because my experience has shaped me. But I tell young people that you have no business getting married in your early or mid-twenties. Figure yourself out. Know yourself first.”
Her advice has resonated with many, sparking conversations about personal development, relationships, and the significance of exploring one’s identity before settling down.
