Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing has responded angrily to a fan who wished her a happy birthday and prayed for her to be married by her next birthday. The outburst came as the actress, known for her candid and often outspoken nature, shared new photos on her Instagram page while counting down to her upcoming birthday. However, one fan’s comment didn’t sit well with her, leading to a sharp rebuttal that left many of her followers surprised.
Nkechi Blessing, who is known for engaging her fans directly on social media, had posted the photos as she looked forward to celebrating her birthday on February 14th. In the post, she also revealed that she would be traveling to two beautiful countries for the occasion, courtesy of @zeetravels_tour, and mentioned that some of her fans could join her on the trip to celebrate. She teased her followers with more details coming soon, and expressed excitement about her upcoming milestone, referring to it as "thebig36loading." The post included a plug for @zeetravels_tour, praising them as the number one travel service provider in the world.
However, amidst the celebratory mood, one fan took the opportunity to add a prayer to the actress’s comment section. The fan wished Nkechi Blessing well and prayed that she would be celebrating her next birthday with her husband, hoping that she would be married by then. While the intention of the prayer may have been positive, it didn’t go down well with Nkechi Blessing, who has been vocal about her views on relationships and marriage.
In her usual direct style, Nkechi sharply responded to the fan’s comment, expressing irritation at what she considered unsolicited advice. The actress questioned the fan’s assumption that everyone shares the same desire for marriage, especially on the timeline set by the fan. Her response read: “Who asked you for this prayer? Una think say na everybody wan marry?”. This blunt reply left many of her followers in shock, with some defending the fan’s good intentions while others agreed with the actress’s stance on the matter.
Nkechi Blessing’s response sparked a broader conversation about the pressure women face regarding marriage, particularly in the public eye. Many fans expressed support for the actress, noting that marriage should be a personal choice, not something to be dictated by others, especially on social media. Others pointed out that while the fan’s comment may have come from a place of kindness, it was still an example of how women are often expected to conform to societal norms and timelines regarding relationships.
The actress, known for her unapologetic approach to life, has built a loyal following that appreciates her authenticity and willingness to speak her mind. Despite the criticism she faced from some followers for her response, it seems that Nkechi Blessing remains steadfast in her belief that her journey, particularly when it comes to love and marriage, is hers to define, and no one else’s to dictate. The incident serves as a reminder of the complex dynamics between celebrities and their fans, especially when it comes to personal matters.