A prominent relationship guru, Kingsley Eyita, offered advice to women through a TikTok video, emphasizing that men are not oblivious but rather discern women who accept their negative behavior and allow mistreatment.
In the video shared on his TikTok page, @kingsleyeyitaproduction, known for providing dating and lifestyle advice, he expressed that a man who doesn't invest effort in a relationship remains unchanged because the woman tolerates such behavior, asserting that men are more perceptive than commonly believed.
Using a hypothetical example, he illustrated that a man indifferent in one relationship might actively engage in another where the woman demands higher standards, indicating that women who fail to set and uphold standards contribute to men's lackadaisical behavior in relationships.
@Geraldine Timkay🥰: "my friend will watch this and still make excuses for him. How can I help her?"
@Ekkua: "I got this wisdom, and I started attracting responsible men… Men are not complicated, don't be overexcited because a man showed interest in you!!!"
@S4SS-QU33N: "Then they label you as dramatic or argumentative because you know how to stand your ground."
@Kalizya Clara Tija M: "I learnt this lesson a bit late but better late than never, I never understood why I was treated like a doormat, I was the 'understanding girlfriend.'”
Watch video here…
@kingsleyeyitaproductionThe goal of this video is to tell women that men are not as dumb as you might think, We know which women we can get away with bad treatment with and which women. We dare not treat badly. These women in general are women with very high standards and they enforce those standards when they need to. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingpsychology
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