Renowned Nigerian dancer Kaffy has shared her thoughts on the ongoing separation saga between Nigerian music legend 2Baba and his wife, actress Annie Idibia, a situation that has sparked much debate in the public eye. Taking to her Instagram page, Kaffy shared a heartfelt video where she emphasized her close relationship with both celebrities and encouraged the public to learn from their situation rather than rushing to cast blame.
“I want to speakIn the video, Kaffy explained that she would not be speaking from a place of judgment, but rather from a perspective that encourages understanding and empathy. She expressed support for both 2Baba and Annie, acknowledging that both of them are victims of their circumstances. Kaffy shared that she knows both of them personally and has no intention of bashing either party, instead urging everyone to see their situation as a learning opportunity. She stated that rather than criticizing, it’s essential to show grace and support them with prayers during this challenging time.
“I want to speak on the Annie and 2Face situation. I am not going to speak from a place of judging anybody but from a perspective we all need to have. I am rooting for both of them as they are victims of their circumstances. I know both of them very well, and I’m not going to bash any of them. 2Face and Annie are a petri dish for us to learn not to judge. Let’s give grace and pray for them,” she said, sharing her genuine thoughts on the matter.
Kaffy then shifted focus to the broader challenges that male celebrities often face, particularly during vulnerable times in their careers. She discussed how male celebrities are often targeted and criticized, and how, at times, women can play a significant role in contributing to their struggles. Kaffy reflected on the societal pressures and expectations that celebrities, particularly men, are subjected to, and pointed out that no man ever plans to have multiple baby mamas, a situation that is often thrust upon them by life circumstances.
“Let me give you a perspective that could be the issue for male celebrities. They are usually under target, and we women are their biggest enemies when they are at a vulnerable moment in their careers. Did any man plan to have plenty baby mamas?” Kaffy questioned, drawing attention to the challenges faced by male figures in the entertainment industry.
Despite the challenges, Kaffy noted that 2Baba has been receiving attention from women, with some even still sending him messages despite the ongoing issues. She acknowledged that while 2Baba should take responsibility for his actions and seek help where needed, no one is without fault in this situation, and it’s important to hold a balanced perspective.
“Both of them have been through toxicity. An average male celebrity is a victim. Despite all of these problems, some girls are still in 2Baba’s DMs like this. I am not trying to absolve him of his problems—he should get help. Nobody is innocent!” she remarked, emphasizing the complexity of the situation and the importance of personal accountability.
The dancer also took the opportunity to reflect on the rising rate of failed marriages and how the public should reassess their expectations and attitudes toward relationships. She urged women to stop holding on to unrealistic beliefs that they can change a man and to focus on self-improvement to avoid becoming victims in their own relationships. Kaffy called for women to take responsibility for their actions and avoid perpetuating toxic dynamics that can harm their relationships. She also encouraged women to work on themselves and serve as vessels of grace, as opposed to contributing to the negative patterns that contribute to broken marriages.
“Let’s ask questions: Why are over 60% of marriages failing? Some of us women have that mindset that we will change him. We should stop! If we want to stop being victims, let’s do better. Because it is also a woman that is confusing the man; we have that much power. The devil is winning; let’s work on ourselves, we serve grace,” she concluded, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and responsibility in relationships.
Watch the video below …