Reality TV star and entrepreneur Ka3na has shared a shocking experience of betrayal by one of her longtime staff members, linking a theft incident to the employee's recent marriage. In an emotional Instagram story post, Ka3na, who rose to fame as a former Big Brother Naija housemate, opened up about how the staff member, who had been loyal and hardworking for years, suddenly changed and committed the theft.
According to Ka3na, the staff member had always been trustworthy and reliable throughout their time working together, with no signs of any issues. However, this loyalty was broken when the employee recently deceived her out of a small sum of money, which Ka3na described as a deeply hurtful betrayal. She pointed out that the staff's behavior shift seemed to coincide with significant changes in her personal life, particularly her recent marriage and pregnancy.
Ka3na took to her Instagram story to explain the situation, stating, “A staff who had worked with me for years and never stole from me has recently duped me of a small amount of money. This happened shortly after she got married and is now pregnant.” She expressed her disappointment and emotional pain over the incident, emphasizing how it was a betrayal from someone she had trusted for so long.
Ka3na used this personal experience as an opportunity to offer advice to women, especially regarding their choice of life partners. She urged women to be intentional and careful when choosing a spouse, stressing the importance of selecting a partner who is supportive, a provider, and someone who will uplift them in life rather than drag them down. “Ladies, when choosing a partner, marry someone who is a provider—someone who will uplift you, not drag you down. If you’re thriving as a single woman, marriage should enhance your life, not diminish it,” she advised in her post.
Ka3na’s candid post sparked conversations on social media, with many discussing the impact relationships and marriage can have on personal and professional ethics. One social media user, @chisparkle_designs, agreed with Ka3na’s perspective and shared their personal experience, saying, “Marry right e get why,I have never liked this lady but she’s totally right on this one, ask me how and I will tell you my story.” This user’s comment reflected the growing sentiment that the choice of a partner plays a crucial role in shaping an individual’s actions and character.
On the other hand, another user, @onyinyechi__favour, disagreed with Ka3na’s stance and criticized her for placing the blame on the employee’s marriage. The user responded, “See how you’re blaming an innocent man, what about you that someone has worked for years yet not still very poor to the extent of stealing ‘little amount’? Aunty her still being poor after working for years is all your fault.” This objection highlights the complexities of the issue, suggesting that poverty and circumstances could also be factors in the staff’s actions, rather than simply blaming the marriage.
Ka3na’s revelation has sparked a broader discussion about the challenges of balancing personal and professional relationships, and how the choices we make in our personal lives can affect our work and the people around us. The debate surrounding her post continues to evolve, shedding light on the intersection of ethics, relationships, and loyalty in both personal and professional settings.
