Nollywood actor IK Ogbonna has taken to social media to express his concerns about why many relationships are crumbling in today’s society.
The actor highlighted how people have normalized being physically present but mentally absent during social gatherings, hangouts, and even in relationships.
According to him, the excessive use of mobile phones is one of the major reasons why connections between individuals are weakening, leading to failed friendships, relationships, and a lack of focus at work.
IK Ogbonna advised people to prioritize real-life connections over distractions caused by mobile devices. He urged individuals to be fully present in the moment rather than being engrossed in their screens.
In his words:
“We have normalized being present but absent at hangouts, parties, and even in relationships. One person talks, the other person scrolls.”
“The second you pick up the phone, you miss the moment. Your mind is in two places, but it’s your connection that suffers.”
“Friendships are failing. Relationships are dying. Work is losing focus. Choose connection over distractions. Drop the phones and be present.”
His post has since sparked conversations online, with many agreeing with his perspective, while others argued that the digital world has become an unavoidable part of modern interactions.
