Nollywood actor, Francis Duru has written an emotional tribute to his late son, Ifeanyi, as he marks his posthumous birthday. The actor, still deeply affected by the tragic loss, reflected on precious memories of his son on what would have been Ifeanyi’s 16th birthday. His heartfelt post paints a vivid picture of the family’s grief, as they had been eagerly anticipating the birthday celebration, only to be devastated by the untimely death of their beloved son.
As shared previously by Gistreel, Francis Duru had announced the death of his son, Ifeanyi, in August 2024, via a somber Instagram post. His latest tribute, also posted on Instagram, expresses the profound sense of loss and the void that Ifeanyi’s death has left in their hearts. The actor recalls the immense joy that the family had been anticipating for the milestone birthday, only to be overwhelmed by grief. The family had eagerly looked forward to celebrating Ifeanyi’s special day, but the sudden loss has turned what should have been a joyous occasion into one filled with sorrow.
In his post, Francis Duru opens up about the deep pain of losing his son, describing the impact as an irreplaceable loss. The actor fondly remembers Ifeanyi’s excitement about turning 16 and the anticipation they all shared for the day. He poignantly writes about the emptiness left behind by his son’s absence and how life has become harder without him. The memories of their time together continue to bring comfort, but the actor admits that no amount of time can ease the pain of his untimely passing.
Francis Duru’s message to his son is filled with love and sorrow. He reminisces about the warmth of Ifeanyi’s smile, his words of affirmation, and the comfort he brought to his family. The actor writes about the silent moments that speak volumes, like how he still sees Ifeanyi’s friends looking at him with eyes full of questions, wondering what happened to their friend. The absence of the school bus, the memories of shared meals, and the ongoing pain in the family are vivid in his words. The actor also shares that his wife, Ifeanyi’s mother, weeps every day, while he himself mourns in the dark. He acknowledges the grief his entire family faces, including Ifeanyi’s grandparents, who keep his memory alive with a cherished picture.
Read Francis Duru’s full heartfelt post below…
francis.duru Nna…today, you were going to be 16.
But the cold hands of death snatched you from us. You looked forward to this day…you were so excited. We all looked forward to it…but life happened to you and you retired so early, son.
It has not been easy because you left a very big hole in our hearts. Why you left and how you left still bothers us. It’s not been easy. No one can ever or will ever replace you. It hurts, but God knows why.
Your fond memories comfort us all, we miss you, your warm smiles, words of affirmation. We miss your arms on my shoulder…the last mayonnaise is still there, I see your friends remaining.
Since you left… the school bus doesn’t come again. Can’t remember when I last ate bread…such a big vacuum. I see your friends, and the look in their eyes still asking what happened.
Mummy weeps each day while I do mine in the dark. Fances and Soso, all of us… grandma has your picture always. Thanks for parenting you.
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