Billionaire businessman and the chairman of Coscharis Group, Cosmas Maduka, has shared his perspective on why love alone is not enough for a successful marriage. In a recent podcast appearance, he emphasized the key financial and personal factors a man must have in place before getting married.
Speaking during an interview on the popular Mic On Podcast, hosted by Seun Okinbaloye, the successful entrepreneur weighed in on a trending topic regarding the financial readiness of men before marriage.
During the discussion, Seun pointed out that many young women today are of the opinion that men who do not earn enough should not approach them for a relationship or marriage. He then asked Cosmas Maduka for his thoughts on the matter.
In response, the business mogul stated that love alone cannot sustain a marriage, explaining that men need to be financially prepared before making such a commitment. He stressed that while emotions are important, practical financial stability plays a crucial role in ensuring a successful union.
According to him, a man should not only have a stable source of income but should also possess basic financial security, such as a comfortable home and transparency about his earnings with his future spouse.
He stated …
“Seun, finding a balance is key. While love is a beautiful thing, will you eat love? Many young women rush into marriage solely based on love, only to realize later that financial instability brings unnecessary stress and struggles.”
“I tell ladies that if you marry a man with no job, simply because he speaks in tongues, then you are not being spiritual—you are being naive. A man must have a clear vision and a well-thought-out plan for his life before considering marriage.”
“At the very least, a man should have a two or three-bedroom apartment where he can house his family. He must also be upfront about his earnings and financial standing. You cannot expect a woman to ‘live by faith’ indefinitely.”
Cosmas Maduka went on to share his personal experience, revealing that when he decided to get married, he made sure to secure a stable home for his wife. Instead of moving into his family house, he rented a three-bedroom apartment, as he believed it was an essential step in proving his readiness for marriage.
“That’s part of what maturity is all about,” he added, emphasizing that financial preparedness is just as important as emotional commitment in a relationship.
Additionally, he noted that before tying the knot, he had already established a steady source of income and was financially secure enough to provide for his wife and future children.
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